Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Picking on the South, yes I am

This was the article on FB that I decided to comment on:
  
  

New Social Studies Textbooks In Texas Do Not Mention KKK Or Jim Crow Laws

Author: July 6, 2015 8:30 pm
We saw it coming. We knew it was nearly inevitable. First, it was creationism in Biology textbooks. Then, it was the battle for Moses in the Social Studies textbooks, which included teaching right-wing political views as history. And finally, they’ve successfully done the impossible. The Washington Post is reporting that this fall, over five million public school students will be taught using  social studies textbooks that do not so much as mention the Ku Klux Klan or Jim Crow laws. In fact, it is reported that the new Texas guidelines for American history “barely address racial segregation.”
And how is the history of the Civil War being taught? Well, it was states’ rights of course!
Pat Hardy, a Republican who sat on the state board of education in 2010, when these new standards were adopted, says:
“There would be those who would say the reason for the Civil War was over slavery. No. It was over states’ rights.”
According to Hardy, the issue of slavery was a “side issue to the Civil War” and now that is exactly how it will be taught in public schools in Texas. Children will be learning that the war was driven because of “sectionalism, states’ rights and slavery” – deliberately documented in that order in the new books.
Amazingly enough, Rod Paige, who is a Republican who served under George W. Bush as education secretary, met this change with criticism:
“I’m of the view that the history of slavery and civil rights are dominant elements of our history and have shaped who we are today. We may not like our history, but it’s history.”
While the fury surrounding the confederate flag continues, we are reminded just why there is so much “pride” on behalf of the southern states – revisionist history. And now, that history is coming to Texas school kids this fall. Pew Research Center conducted a survey in 2011 which showed that nearly half (48 percent) of those asked believe the Civil War was about states’ rights while 38 percent said it was mainly about slavery. Just like Texas’ textbooks, those that argue states’ rights seem to omit the right the south was fighting for: keeping human beings as property.
The civil rights era was an extremely historic time for our country. Yet, kids in Texas won’t be learning the history of Jim Crow laws, the role the KKK played in the oppressive nature of the south, or the impacts of racial segregation. Because apparently knowledge is an extremely dangerous thing when attempting to mold the future base of the grand old party.
How many racism deniers will be created when their public schools omit the important lessons that our history teaches us? Will future generations understand the tragedy that existed in the south that was not only the act of owning and selling human beings, but then also using that as a compelling reason to rally for “states’ rights” TO continue to own and sell human beings as property – so strongly that they were willing to divide the country?
Texas’ schools ranked 39 in the nation – certainly not a stellar grade for the Lone Star State.



I stepped into the forum by saying:

    • Robin  Supposedly history is written by the victor but this isn't true of the Civil War and the years of desegregation. The south persists on revising history to candy coat their racist acts as heritage

    • Dave  The "South" does not commit racist acts. The US won the Spanish American war also, didn't stop Spanish from being Spanish or flying their flag. We won the war with Japan, no one is demanding they don't fly their flag or honor their fallen. BTW Japan ...See More
    • Dave  BTW, have any idea where the KKK headquarters are? That would be Michigan....
    • Robin  Funny how out of all the comments saying the same thing I did you choose to reply to mine. It makes me feel you want a rebuttal so here goes. I was born and raised in Missouri, a state that was torn apart by the civil war. I lived through desegregation. I've studied both sides of the historical coin, and, frankly I'm sick to death of southerns pretending it doesn't hurts others to see the confederate flag. Or that it won't further harm the rights of ALL regardless of race/creed/or gender by hiding behind revisionist history. These acts are cowardly. I think you've stated before that the KKK is in Michigan though I still don't know how that supposedly makes southern racism correct. However, the KKK was created in Tennessee right after the civil war. Since then they've continually tried to spread their message of hate and misinformation. http://mic.com/.../the-complete-list-of-american-cities...
    • Dave I currently live in Missouri.. .want to have coffee? Just kidding.. As southern born and raised I was taking offense to the generalization of the south. Prejudice was never preached or allowed in my home and still isn't today. My family has a history or black BFF's and that's not uncommon with southern people. Do we have bad apples, yes. There are also bad apples in the North but I don't call out the entire "North" because of them.
    • Robin Proportionally it isn't the same
    • Dave Oh well, guess we just aren't proportional. And, frankly Scarlet..
    • Robin  but I do and that is the problem between us
    • Dave  No, I told you what the problem is... You generalize about the "South." It's like saying all Muslims are al qaeda.
    • Robin  If the majority of southerns aren't racist they won't revise history to make them sound better and they'll remove the confederate flag from public view. It is things like that which give the rest of the nation such a narrow view of them. Now, I know you'll have to have the last word and I need to get to work. So have at it.
    • Dave I'm sure I speak for the entire southern half of the United States when I say...yawn..
       
Ah, Dave, I expected better of you. I'd hope you'd finally make some effort at a meaningful contribution to the dialogue. 

Maybe you saw that you couldn't. As, truthfully, you'd have had to do a lot better than what you'd written so far. None of your previous comments made much sense. Take this one: 'the US won the Spanish American war also, didn't stop Spanish from being Spanish or flying their flag. We won the war with Japan, no one is demanding they don't fly their flag or honor their fallen.' How is this a rational or valid point? Neither Spain or Japan ever belonged to the US. Our wars with these sovereign nations had nothing to do with secession.

Did you consider it a rational or constructive rebuttal to my original comment to call it a national problem? The post in question is about Texas changing the history book so they no longer reflect reality.

You found it necessary to say that KKK is in Michigan. Again I'm not sure what bearing that has on the subject at hand. However, I sent you the most updated link I could find showing all the places the KKK have headquarters. Doesn't change the fact the hate group originated in Tennessee. 

You then point out there are good and bad people. Yes, dear, we all know this to be true. It is time for the good ones to stand up for what is right, to recognize and take action ensuring the equality of all. It's time for the needs of the many to outweigh the needs of the few. Confederate flags (a symbol of hatred from the desegregation years) should be removed from public view. Keep your heritage in museums and not where the sight of it hurts others.
 
Oh, and, my favorite comment, that you've got black friends. I'm so pleased for you. Now, Dave, why don't you honor these friends by not candy-coating their history. 

History shouldn't be rewritten so the southern states can feel better about themselves. You can't hide the past of slavery, Jim Crow laws, and rampant discrimination. 

Take down the confederate flag, keep history accurate as it's more important to honor the living than the dead.

What's more? I believe you know this. Which is why you suddenly felt it necessary to act as if you didn't give a damn by feigning boredom. 

How cowardly.

Deny if you must but if you hadn't cared - if you didn't know you stood on the wrong side of history - you wouldn't have been so upset about my comment in the first place.

You'll have to look it up - you do know how to research don't you? - but I believe your *yawn* is number 11on the list of how men argue. It's an underhanded, childish manipulation to win an argument already lost. Did you really think I'd back down because you tried to diminish my viewpoint? You're all posturing without substance and all you've managed to do is convince me you are another bigot with their head in the sand.

The only thing you got right is that I do pick on the south. I pick on that part of our nation because that is where confederate flags are still being flown over state capitals. I pick on southerns because of situations like Texas where they're trying to revise history. Any attempts to hide the dirty past of slavery, Jim Crow laws, and the horrors enacted by the KKK are dishonorable.

Why do I pick on the south? Let me end this with a sight I saw all too often growing up. Look at this woman's face, contorted in hate, as she screams slurs.
How has it changed? 
 And, finally let's put the whole the civil war wasn't fought over slaves issue to rest. According to the Confederate States of America - Declaration of the Immediate Causes Which Induce and Justify the Secession of South Carolina from the Federal Union, it states:

These ends it endeavored to accomplish by a Federal Government, in which each State was recognized as an equal, and had separate control over its own institutions. The right of property in slaves was recognized by giving to free persons distinct political rights, by giving them the right to represent, and burthening them with direct taxes for three-fifths of their slaves; by authorizing the importation of slaves for twenty years; and by stipulating for the rendition of fugitives from labor.
We affirm that these ends for which this Government was instituted have been defeated, and the Government itself has been made destructive of them by the action of the non-slaveholding States. Those States have assume the right of deciding upon the propriety of our domestic institutions; and have denied the rights of property established in fifteen of the States and recognized by the Constitution; they have denounced as sinful the institution of slavery; they have permitted open establishment among them of societies, whose avowed object is to disturb the peace and to eloign the property of the citizens of other States. They have encouraged and assisted thousands of our slaves to leave their homes; and those who remain, have been incited by emissaries, books and pictures to servile insurrection.
For twenty-five years this agitation has been steadily increasing, until it has now secured to its aid the power of the common Government. Observing the forms of the Constitution, a sectional party has found within that Article establishing the Executive Department, the means of subverting the Constitution itself. A geographical line has been drawn across the Union, and all the States north of that line have united in the election of a man to the high office of President of the United States, whose opinions and purposes are hostile to slavery. He is to be entrusted with the administration of the common Government, because he has declared that that "Government cannot endure permanently half slave, half free," and that the public mind must rest in the belief that slavery is in the course of ultimate extinction. 

You can see the document in its entirety at http://avalon.law.yale.edu/19th_century/csa_scarsec.asp

Friday, July 3, 2015

Yes, the continuing debate can be tiresome but it needs to go on until it is done

I am a white, middle-aged woman. I lived through desegregation and the Civil Rights movements, and even then I could see the white, middle-aged, heterosexual, Christian men, making up the nation's power base were afraid. I see it again now. There hasn't been this much fear in the right-wing since the Jim Crow laws were struck down. Except, of course, when our first African American president was elected.

 Slavery was abolished after the Civil War, women got the vote, and gay marriage has been legalized. Those were good steps but all too often white right wingers try to pull the teeth from any freedom not directly serving them. They find it impossible to believe or accept that no one race, creed or gender orientation is better than another. They refuse to give up the premise of white manifest destiny...the ideology that allowed them to push Native Americans from their lands...but I'm here to talk about symbols.
 
Yes, the continuing debate over the Confederate flag can be tiresome but it needs to go on. You can't stop the fight until change is accomplished for the greater good.
 
Let's start with the Nazi flag. According to the Holocaust encyclopedia, 'The swastika symbol was used 5,000 years before Adolf Hitler designed the Nazi flag. The word swastika comes from the Sanskrit svastika, which means “good fortune” or “well-being." To this day it is a sacred symbol in Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, and Odinism. It is a common sight on temples or houses in India or Indonesia.'
                                                                 
Yet you won't find the Nazi flag flying in Germany these days. Why? Because Hitler and the Nazi's turned it into such a symbol of hate and oppression that it sickens us to look at it. It is not flown as another way to honor Jews and all those killed under the regime. The red flag with the black hooked cross on a white disc, once a positive symbol was bastardized during WWII and will always be connected with horrific Nazi ideology and deeds.

Likewise the Confederate flag has become a symbol of racism at its worst. It is a reminder that we once considered it acceptable to enslave other humans. To this day, it is often employed to represent discrimination and the hatred of non-whites. So it doesn't really matter if you had relatives who fought for the south. Those who fought for the south should not be honored any more than those who fought for Hitler. Were all Nazi soldiers bad? Of course not - just as all southern soldiers weren't slave holders. 
 
I was born and raised in southwest Missouri. Those below the Mason-Dixon line consider me a northerner. Most of the other states consider me a southerner or close enough. People from my state had relatives fighting on both sides of the war. As a kid I was entranced by stories of Antebellum plantations and imagined wearing a hoop skirt like Scarlett O'Hara while saying, "fiddle-dee-dee."
 
But that was a child's view, maturity and watching the fight over desegregation forced me to realize it didn't matter if slavery was the sole cause for southern succession or not. If freedom from slavery was the end result then it was the most important factor.
 
If that wasn't bad enough, however, let's get to another reason why the Confederate flag is to be despised. From the moment the surrender was signed at Appomattox, southern bigots took their discrimination and exploitation of African Americans to increasing extremes. Throughout the 50's, 60's, and 70's the US government was required to send troops to strike down Jim Crow laws and to enforce desegregation. I am old enough to remember this rampant bigotry. I saw signs for 'white' and 'colored' only signs at gas stations in the south. I watched the nightly news showing footage of rabid looking white southerns shouting slurs and mobbing fellow American citizens to prevent them from eating in restaurants, drinking from a water fountains, or entering schools based solely on their race. 
 
The Confederacy started by white men who believed they'd a right to own another human. The flag is carried by the KKK, by Neo-Nazi's as a symbol for white supremacy. This is why its irrevocably connected to racism. This is why it should be removed from public view.
 
                                                                 

Cry heritage all you want, you won't convince anyone who doesn't already share your myopic view. So yes, slavery and discrimination is why the Confederate flag should be abhorred and why this symbol should be removed from products. It's why television shows featuring the flag shouldn't be aired. Yes, I'd like to see all monuments to Confederate soldiers be removed from public and put in museums. Street names honoring Confederate soldiers should also be changed. We don't name streets Hitler Ave., Grand Wizard of KKK Blvd, or Bigot Street. That would offend us. So why should African American citizens have addresses like Stonewall Jackson or Robert E Lee?

If you still can't understand the need for change...if you must keep your flag of hatred - well, you're an American. You have the freedom of expression as long as it doesn't infringe on another person's personal freedoms. So feel free to hang it proudly in your dining room, wrap yourself tightly in the warmth of its cloth to sleep, or put it in your closet and pray to it daily. Your choice.
 
Don't, however, offend those who believe in true equality by forcing the sight on those who suffered under it. The flag doesn't only offend the ancestors of slaves but it hurts those who are forced to continually fight for equality.
 
Publicly removing this flag, giving up re-runs of the Dukes of Hazards television show, and renaming streets honoring those who fought to keep slavery is small potatoes to what our African American citizens have put up with throughout years of intolerance and injustice. It wasn't as if the Africans chose to come here. We sought them out, captured them, and forced them to be packed on ships like sardines. They were sold, beaten, raped, and forced to give up their religion and customs at the landowners whim.
 
Then when the Union won the Civil War and abolished slavery, white racists made their lives a living hell. They are still suffering rampant racism.
 
Taking down this flag from public view is a small thing in comparison. It is way past time to recognize Manifest destiny for white, conservative, heterosexual Christians is over. 
 
 

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Jeb Bush In 1995: Unwed Mothers Should Be Publicly Shamed

Jeb Bush In 1995: Unwed Mothers Should Be Publicly Shamed











I read this post by  

   Public shaming would be an effective way to regulate the “irresponsible behavior” of unwed mothers, misbehaving teenagers and welfare recipients, former Florida Gov. Jeb Bush (R) argued in his 1995 book Profiles in Character.
In a chapter called "The Restoration of Shame,” the likely 2016 presidential candidate made the case that restoring the art of public humiliation could help prevent pregnancies “out of wedlock.”


One of the reasons more young women are giving birth out of wedlock and more young men are walking away from their paternal obligations is that there is no longer a stigma attached to this behavior, no reason to feel shame. Many of these young women and young men look around and see their friends engaged in the same irresponsible conduct. Their parents and neighbors have become ineffective at attaching some sense of ridicule to this behavior. There was a time when neighbors and communities would frown on out of wedlock births and when public condemnation was enough of a stimulus for one to be careful.
Bush points to Nathaniel Hawthorne's 1850 novel The Scarlet Letter, in which the main character is forced to wear a large red "A" for "adulterer" on her clothes to punish her for having an extramarital affair that produced a child, as an early model for his worldview. "Infamous shotgun weddings and Nathaniel Hawthorne's Scarlet Letter are reminders that public condemnation of irresponsible sexual behavior has strong historical roots,” Bush wrote.
As governor of Florida in 2001, Bush had the opportunity to test his theory on public shaming. He declined to veto a very controversial bill that required single mothers who did not know the identity of the father to publish their sexual histories in a newspaper before they could legally put their babies up for adoption. He later signed a repeal of the so-called "Scarlet Letter" law in 2003 after it was successfully challenged in court.

Bush's ideas about public shaming extended beyond unwed parents. He said American schools and the welfare system could use a healthy dose of shame as well. “For many, it is more shameful to work than to take public assistance -- that is how backward shame has become!” he wrote, adding that the juvenile criminal justice system also "seems to be lacking in humiliation," Bush wrote.
In the context of present-day society we need to make kids feel shame before their friends rather than their family. The Miami Herald columnist Robert Steinback has a good idea. He suggests dressing these juveniles in frilly pink jumpsuits and making them sweep the streets of their own neighborhoods! Would these kids be so cavalier then?
It's worth pointing out that the kind of public shaming Bush described has come under fire recently in response to the growing trend of parents humiliating their children on social media to punish them. A 13-year-old girl committed suicide last month after her father posted a video of himself cutting off her long hair on YouTube because she had disobeyed him.
YouTube and social media, of course, did not exist when Bush wrote his book in 1995. But the former governor makes clear that "society needs to relearn the art of public and private disapproval and how to make those to engage in some undesirable behavior feel some sense of shame."
Bush did not respond to a request for comment.

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Now for the rant from a white, divorced, mother of three

Bush might have said it first in 1995 but later actions prove he still feels the same way. As you can see by the article, as governor of Florida in 2001, Bush had the opportunity to test his theory on public shaming. He declined to veto a very controversial bill that required single mothers who did not know the identity of the father to publish
their sexual histories in a newspaper before they could legally put their babies up for adoption. He later signed a repeal of the so-called "Scarlet Letter" law in 2003 after it was successfully challenged in court.
No matter what his current rhetoric might be, he's shown his true colors, and do we really want him as our next president? Instead of going back to the dark ages by 'shaming' he ought to have made sure birth control was covered by insurance and abortions were safe and legal. His, or anyone's, religious
values are out of place in government AS THEY ARE NOT SHARED BY ALL. So you believe birth control and abortions are wrong - don't use them and don't have them. Those who don't share that belief should have access.
Yes, our founding fathers (except, maybe, Jefferson) adhered to the manifest destiny of the white man. BUT THAT'S NOT WHAT THEY WROTE. In the documents created to start our country, they made it clear that all were created equal under the law, and church and state were to be separate.
People, it is time we remembered that. Our laws are meant to secular - color blind and made without the influence of religious belief - so they encompass all creeds, genders (this includes LGBT), and races equally.
All have a right to personal freedoms. I know this frightens those older, white males who fear losing control of the government. But it is time to step down. Your rules are becoming more and more ludicrous as you try to retain a grip on the reins of power, as you desperately try to cling to the days of white entitlement. The public, where white males are no longer the largest voting group, is watching.
White police officers quitting because a black female is elected to office, shooting unarmed black teens, are overstepping their authority into brutality. Schools - so afraid boys will be sexually charged by seeing a girl's shoulders that one sent a five-year-old girl home because her sundress had spaghetti straps. Perpetuating a rape environment where a woman is forced to bear a child created during an act of violence against her, and then to add salt to the injury they give the rapists legal rights to that child.
It's time to stop allowing conservatists to write laws based on their own religious beliefs. Believe it or not, I can love my country and yet not be a Christian.
And give these people a few science and biology lessons as their views are woefully ignorant:
On the female reproductive system we have these kinds of comments.
"The facts show that people who are raped —who are truly raped—the juices don't flow, the body functions don't work and they don't get pregnant. Medical authorities agree that this is a rarity, if ever."—former Rep. Henry Aldridge (R-N.C.)
Life begins "from the first day of the last menstrual period of the pregnant woman."—Statement from an Arizona bill signed into law by Republican Gov. Jan Brewer. (See? Even some women don't fully understand conception.)
"If it's a legitimate rape, the female body has ways to try to shut that whole thing down."—former Rep. Todd Akin (R-Missouri).
"As long as it's inevitable, you might as well lie back and enjoy it." —Former Texas Republican gubernatorial contender Clayton Williams on rape.

On climate change we have:
“I do not believe that human activity is causing these dramatic changes to our climate the way these scientists are portraying. And I do not believe that the laws that they propose we pass will do anything about it.” -Senator Marco Rubio, a member on the Senate Subcommittee on Science and Space
"The pope should leave science to the scientists." -Rick Santorum made this comment about Pope Francis, who holds a degree as a chemical technician and worked as a chemist before turning to the priesthood.
Now these men and women have a right to their narrow minded, bigoted, and misogynistic beliefs. What they don't have is the right to impose their values on those who disagree with them. Let's vote this type of person out of our governing body. Isn't it long past time to stop discriminating against those adhering to different creeds, all gender orientations, and different races?

And I haven't even started on his words about the homeless or unemployed...
Don't perpetuate the hate by voting for this man.

Friday, June 5, 2015

FIVE STAR REVIEW FOR VAMPIRE IN THE SCYING GLASS by R.E.MULLINS

Lovers of the Paranormal Reviewer, Denise had this to say about 
                  VAMPIRE IN THE SCRYING GLASS

 





Vampire in the Scrying Glass' pulled me in from the beginning and I couldn't put it down. The storyline was well written and an incredible read. The way it played out was full of action, drama, mystery and some pretty cool beings. The characters were awesome. I loved Morgan and her sense of humor. She turned out to be a powerful character. Her inner strength was brought to the surface and it was a beautiful thing to read. I bonded with the characters in the first book, 'Its a Wonderful Undead Life', and it continued and grew into this book. Rafe took me by surprise. He started as an arrogant a$$, but you could tell there was a softer, gentler side to him. I loved when he was talking to Morgan and said:
"On a tombstone, between the dates of birth and death, there is a dash. Such a tiny mark, but it represents everything you’ve done and experienced in life. What do you want your dash to say about you?"
Quite beautiful to me. Plus he's sexy hot. This series just keeps getting better. This book could be a standalone, but reading the first book gives you the whole story on how things began. I look forward to reading the next book in the 'Blautsaugers of Amber Heights' series. A great add to your tbr list. Recommended read.

Saturday, May 9, 2015

HEADLINES RIPPED FROM THE INTERNET PROVE WE'VE LOST ALL COMMON SENSE

1. Court: Family mistakenly notified of woman's death can't sue but elsewhere this is allowed...

2. Police officer suing Starbucks over hot coffee 'didn't know it was that hot'

3. Most Of Police Force Quits After Black Woman Elected Mayor  

4. Kindergarten Tells 5-Year-Old Her Dress Is Inappropriate. The kindergartner has to cover up because "spaghetti straps are against the rule"

5. GOP Rep: 'Legit Rape' Victims Don't Get Pregnant

6. Republican Paul Ryan Protects Rapists’ Rights in New Fetus Bill 

7. Child custody rights for rapists? Most states have them

8. Legalizing Gay Marriage Will Increase Abortion Rates, Says D.C. Lawyer Gene Schaerr 

9. Student suspended for politely holding door open

10. The legalization of marijuana will destroy family

11. Indiana Pizza Place Refuses Gays, Gets $200K in Crowdfunding


 

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

So maybe I'm just another treehugger...

             


Last summer was the first I spent in this little house. Tucked between nature parks with walking trails on the north and west sides. The tiny creek on the west (behind) my property connects into a larger creek bisecting the park on the north side. Flowers grow along the banks and there is a perfectly placed bridge enticing children to fish or play 'Pooh sticks'. 


In addition to the numerous common city birds, I've seen Great Blue and Night Herons fishing. While numerous hawks patrol the sky looking for fish and rodents.


A narrow boulevard separates my house from park on the north.  My closest neighbors are located east across the street on the front and to the south of me. 

There's a small storage shed in my backyard and I soon learned there was a sort of animal United Nations underneath. Groundhogs and bunnies go in and come out the same two access holes. How, I often speculated, did they cohabited under the shed? Did they share one big hole or did they keep separate homes? 
 

I began feeding them - more for my sake than theirs but it was so much fun to watch them. The bunnies are particular. The only offerings they'd accept were peeled, baby carrots. The groundhogs are less fussy. They especially love carrots, apples, watermelon, and broccoli. Surprisingly, none of the critters would eat celery.

If I was late getting breakfast out to them, they'd come sit on the ground outside the kitchen window. They'd wait, rather impatiently I must admit, staring in at me until I remembered to feed them.

Over the winter I saw the bunnies once or twice but groundhogs hibernate. I was delighted to see them emerge about mid-March. I stocked up on carrots. Then about two weeks ago my furry neighbors disappeared. I consoled myself by inventing reasons. Perhaps, they were off looking for mates or they were back under the shed having babies. 

I watched, waited, and began to worry.

Yesterday, I discovered the new homeowners, living further down the street, had set traps for them. Evidently, my groundhogs had begun excavating under their shed and they feared it would ruin the foundation. I never got a chance to explain the groundhogs were well known to the neighbors and had been for years. It was too late for me to point out that my shed's foundation was fine. There wasn't a chance to point out how humans have encroached upon their natural habitat and destroyed much of it with our construction. 

Could we really begrudge them a shed or two?

Oh, I know all the arguments and, yes, I understand them. They could easily move from sheds to house foundations, etc. While I might wish these new people had simply deterred the groundhogs with fencing, I know my complaint is self-serving. I got a kick out of the critters. Who knew they'd prefer to climb over the fence instead of digging under it. One seemed to especially enjoy sitting on top of the fence. I imagine he felt mighty up there surveying his little kingdom.

They made me laugh when they stood on their back legs like prairie dogs (a close cousin) and sniffed the air. I never got tired of watching the way they'd stand to eat long carrots. They liked to sit in my flower tower and look in my back sliding glass door as if they were watching TV with me.  

Now they are gone and I will miss them. And why? Because others only saw potential problems and never stopped to consider the gratification of having groundhog neighbors.

 



 

 

Saturday, April 18, 2015

Who gives you the right to discriminate? I'm casting the first stone.


Okay. I'm not a stone. I'm not powerful, rich, nor articulate enough.  In fact, I'm just a tiny pebble: a white, Christian raised, middle-aged, divorced mother of three grown children. Needless to say, I understand my opinion doesn't carry much weight in the huge and divisive pond of public opinion. Yet, for some reason, I feel driven to speak out. In the hope that if enough little pebbles are heard from - positive changes can be made.
 
It's time to remember this country was founded on freedom of religion and the separation of church and state. The Founding Fathers drafted the Declaration of Independence and the first Constitution during a time lacking in the most basic freedoms. It was during a time when all power was tightly gripped in the hands of white, Christian males. 

Even the Founding Fathers knew this wasn't right. Thomas Jefferson wrote in the Declaration:
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

This was not limited to one God, one color, or only to heterosexuals. Using the term 'creator' could even imply evolution. 

The first amendment states:
Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

Though most who drafted these original documents were devout Christians, they went to great lengths to remove religion from the governing bodies they were forming. This is why I don't believe an ordained minister should be able to hold a government office.

United States is unique, at least on paper, in that we recognized all as equal. There would be no monarchy and no one religion ruling us.

Let's stop for a moment for a ecclesiastical history lesson.
According to the Bible, the basis for the Christians faith, a Hebrew God created the earth and Jesus was Jewish. Does no one see the bilateral symmetry here? It's time to stop acting like bickering, rival siblings. Every faith is based on love No one faith is superior to another. Do you really believe on Judgement day, God will look more kindly on someone who bombed an abortion clinic, picketed grieving relatives at a funeral, or refused to sell pizzas to a gay couple? 

If so, I think you better start reading again. Quit picking and choosing the parts of the Bible you like while ignoring the rest. Stop quoting only the verses supporting your personal vendettas while ignore any opposing your viewpoint. Face it. You can't discriminate against gay marriage if you accept divorce and re-marriage. If you run a school or business for profit - you are opened to the public. That means you can't deny another person's right to that product. Everyone, regardless of race, nationality, creed, or lifestyle has a right to be served. Treat everyone the same or get out of the public sector, and, hopefully, the United States as you obviously don't want to be united with all.   


Because freedom is a right for everyone. Not just for those who share a narrow belief structure. It's way past time for acceptance of all races, colors, creeds, lifestyles. We don't have the right to judge others for what they believe, their status, gender, skin color, size, or for whom they love. If we do, then we haven't traveled very far from the days when women couldn't vote or own property, divorce was illegal,  adulterers were stoned, slavery was legal, races were segregated, and non-Christians were discriminated against. 

Don't forget. At one time Christians were killed  for their faith. In Sunday School we were filled with stories of how Romans stoned, burned, and turned early Christians into lion bait. So what now gives proponents of Christianity the right to discriminate or abuse others because of a differing faith or lifestyle? If you do then you're no better than those who killed the first followers of Christ. Jesus, need I remind you, espoused love for all.

Life and let live should be the motto sang high and low. Love all and treat others the way we want to be treated. It isn't so hard.


And just maybe, this little pebble might make a positive ripple.